“Show me a guy who’s afraid to look bad, and I’ll show you a guy you can beat every time.” –Lou Brock
via Shane Parrish
My ego puts me at a disadvantage.
If I don’t care that I might come across as weak or naive or silly, I’m open to possibilities and flexible and more willing to try something daring.
But if I’m worried about protecting my image, I’m significantly less likely to accomplish anything worthwhile.
There’s safety in sticking with conventional wisdom and not being an outlier. Of course, “caution is the devil.”
The author Malcolm Gladwell tells the story of Wilt Chamberlain’s free throw problem in his excellent podcast, Revisionist History. (What a great podcast series, by the way. Every episode is compelling.)
Chamberlain was one of the all-time great basketball players, dominant in every phase of the game except one—free throws. His teammate, Rick Barry, was one of the best free throw shooters, but he used an unconventional method, the granny shot, an underhanded and surer shot.
Barry coached Chamberlain on the granny shot, and Chamberlain switched to it—for a while. But using the granny shot subjected the player to the chance of being ridiculed, by other players and by fans. When Chamberlain used the granny shot, his free throw percentage improved significantly. But he refused to stay with it, because as he later wrote in his autobiography, “I felt silly… like a sissy.”
Instead, his brilliant career was marred by his terrible 51 percent free throw percentage.
I’m a big fan of the high school football coach, Kevin Kelley of Pulaski Academy in Little Rock, who is famous for defying the conventional wisdom about how to play football. He rarely punts on fourth down and almost always calls an onside kick when his team kicks off. And he’s remarkably successful, with six state championships and many appearances in the state playoffs. He was recently named USA Today coach of the year.
When asked why more coaches don’t adopt his methods, he said “It’s simply risk aversion. People are scared they will have to suffer ridicule by fans, players and the media.”
If you don’t care about looking silly or making a fool of yourself, you’ll have so much room to grow and to fulfill your potential.
For me, I simply need to more regularly just say “I don’t know” rather than scrambling for any response to avoid looking clueless. So many of us feel like we will look bad if we don’t seem sure or confident. It’s acknowledging the not-knowing that often lights the way to breakthroughs.
Have the courage to look silly in the pursuit of excellence.