“Change leads to insight more than insight leads to change.” –Milton Erickson
We overestimate, especially in January each year, how much we can, or, more accurately, will initiate change. Best intentions of a new and better you usually remain merely intentions.
But some kind of change is going to happen—likely change you can’t foresee, much less desire.
Be prepared, then, to use whatever may come as an opportunity for new insight and growth. Embrace everything—everything—that happens to you as if you had chosen it. (This approach doesn’t exactly come naturally. Some hard mental jujitsu is necessary. I’m still a white belt here.)
But resistance to what already is is futile, so it would make sense to accommodate yourself to changing circumstances rather than getting flattened by them.
Paraphrasing Darwin, it’s not the strongest or most intelligent that survive. It’s those who are most adaptable to change.
Change is inevitable, it’s relentless, and it’s coming. At least use it to propel yourself forward.