“Understanding someone’s suffering is the best gift you can give another person. Understanding is love’s other name. If you don’t understand, you can’t love.” –Thich Nhat Hanh
If you truly understand someone, you can’t help but love them.
Consider making the attempt to understand the perspective of anyone you feel you don’t, or can’t, love.
Even if you could never approve of his actions, understanding—seeing the world even for a moment the way he does—will give you compassion for him.